Cyber-bullying is a different kind of beast when it comes to harassment. It can be done anytime and anywhere. Home is no longer a refuge from the big, bad, bullies. Social networking sites provide easy access, sites like Myspace, Facebook and Twitter. Its mostly harassment, exclusion from online groups or conversations, and copying or distributing personal photos or videos with intentions to do harm. Pretty much anything goes.
Cyber-bullying tends to be more harsh then a face-to-face encounter with a bully since the bullies don’t see the reaction of the victims. They feel removed from the action and the person at the receiving end and will say things they would never say face-to-face. Girls between the ages of 12 and 15 are targeted the most by bullies who are of the same age and sex.
What Can We Do?
They say knowledge is the best defense. Help your kids by knowing what all is involved in cyber-bullying. Talk to your kids about cyber bullying and make sure you know what your kids are doing while inline. Who they chat with, what sites they visit and what tehy are telling others about themselves online.
What if your child is a vicitm of cyber-bullying? Usually kids will tell their parents when cyber-bullying occurs but, if they don’t and you suspect something, take the initiative to talk to them. It is important you know so you can help them.
Do not reply to messages, since a reaction is what the bully wants and keep a record of them so you have proof. Inform local police and your Internet provider.
Up until recently cyber-bullies have often been able to sneak under the radar and nothing much could be done. Things are changing though and people are becoming more aware of this growing problem. Knowing what is going on online and teaching your kids Internet smarts and safety can help to avoid problems with cyber-bullies.
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